One-sided polyamory happens when one person in a couple is open to multiple romantic or sexual partners while the other prefers monogamy. It can feel unfair or confusing. For example, in some open marriages one spouse pursues outside relationships (perhaps to explore new feelings), while the other partner does not have that freedom. If only
Polyamory, at its heart, means “many loves.” It describes the practice of having multiple loving, consensual relationships at the same time. Increasingly, many people in the U.S. are learning that love and commitment can take different forms beyond the traditional one-partner model. Instead of an exclusive partnership model, polyamorous people build networks of relationships with
Supporting multiple romantic relationships simultaneously can seem liberating, but many discover that why polyamory doesn’t work involves deep emotional strain, logistical hurdles, and social pushback. In this post, I’ll unpack the main reasons polyamorous arrangements often falter—jealousy, burnout, time constraints, societal stigma, and more—so you can understand whether this lifestyle truly fits your needs. Emotional
Polyamory—the practice of engaging in multiple consensual romantic or sexual relationships—has gained visibility and acceptance in recent years. While it can work for some, I believe that polyamory is bad for many people due to emotional strain, logistical complexity, social stigma, and potential power imbalances. In this deep dive, I’ll explore these challenges, drawing on