If you spend enough time on TikTok, Instagram, or reading modern dating blogs, you might start to believe that polyamory is the ultimate, enlightened evolution of human romance. Influencers paint a beautiful, utopian picture of “Ethical Non-Monogamy” (ENM). They talk about infinite love, overcoming petty jealousy, and living in a state of constant romantic abundance.
Let’s dismantle the biggest myth in modern romance right now: Happy couples do not fight. This is entirely false. In fact, if you and your partner never argue, it is usually not a sign of perfect harmony; it is often a massive red flag. A complete lack of conflict usually means one or both partners
I want you to imagine a scenario that is incredibly common, yet rarely talked about out loud. It is 10:30 PM on a Tuesday. You and your partner are laying in the exact same bed, scrolling through your respective phones. You are physically inches apart, but an invisible ocean seems to separate you. You desperately
I will never forget the evening I realized something was terribly wrong in my relationship. We were sitting on the same couch, watching the exact same Netflix show, eating the same takeout food. Physically, we were just inches apart. But emotionally? We felt like we were sitting on entirely different planets. Have you ever felt
We have all been there. It starts with a dirty sock on the floor. Five minutes later, you are screaming about how your partner “never listens,” “doesn’t respect you,” and “ruined your birthday three years ago.” You aren’t just fighting about the sock anymore. You are fighting for your emotional survival. Most conflict resolution advice
We have all been there. You are sitting in the car, the radio is off, and the silence is deafening. You just had a fight, but you aren’t even sure what it was about. Was it the dishes? Was it the tone of voice? Or was it something much older that has been festering for
They say money makes the world go round. In relationships, it can also make the world stop. You can have perfect chemistry, shared goals, and deep love, but if you are fighting about money, everything else starts to crumble. In fact, research consistently shows that money is the #1 cause of divorce in the United
It starts small. Maybe it’s your mother-in-law rearranging your kitchen cabinets because “it makes more sense this way.” Maybe it’s your father-in-law making passive-aggressive comments about your career choice at Thanksgiving dinner. Or maybe it’s the guilt trips whenever you say you can’t visit for the weekend. Suddenly, you aren’t just fighting about the kitchen
Long-distance relationships have become common in our digital age. In the U.S. alone, about 14 million couples (28 million people) say they’re in an LDR. For young adults, work and school often mean loving someone far away. While distance brings unique challenges, it doesn’t doom a relationship. In fact, many research studies and experts show
Marriage conflict is painful, but it doesn’t have to tear a marriage apart. In fact, conflicts can become catalysts for growth when handled God’s way. The Bible offers wisdom for every disagreement, and these 7 biblical ways to resolve conflict in marriage will help you apply it. By praying together, listening patiently, and showing love
I believe that learning to forgive your partner after a hurtful event is one of the most courageous things you can do. It opens the door not only to healing but also to deeper connection—and offers a path to rebuild your relationship stronger than before. In this post, I’ll guide you through understanding forgiveness, practical
Understanding what makes a relationship work is essential for nurturing a strong, lasting connection. I believe that a thriving relationship is built on a foundation of effective communication, mutual trust, quality time together, supportive empathy, and personal growth. In this post, I share insights on 5 things that make a relationship work, outlining strategies and