Couple Compatibility Questionnaire

Answer 20 relationship questions to get your compatibility score, personalized tips, and relationship advice.

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1. When you were upset last time, what did your partner do?

They apologized sincerely and comforted you.
They listened patiently to your concerns.
They made an effort to change the situation.
They got defensive or dismissive.
They did nothing to address your feelings.

2. How often do you and your partner communicate openly about your feelings?

Very frequently, almost daily.
Often, several times a week.
Sometimes, when issues arise.
Rarely, it is difficult to open up.
Never, you avoid emotional conversations.

3. When facing a conflict, how do you resolve disagreements?

You talk it out calmly and reach a compromise.
You discuss it after taking some time to cool off.
You argue, but eventually make up.
You avoid discussing it and let it fester.
Conflicts lead to frequent breakups or threats.

4. How supportive is your partner regarding your personal goals?

Extremely supportive, always encouraging you.
Generally supportive, with occasional doubts.
Neutral; they neither support nor discourage you.
Somewhat unsupportive, rarely offering encouragement.
Not supportive at all, often discouraging your efforts.

5. How well do you share household responsibilities?

Responsibilities are equally shared.
Mostly shared, with minor imbalances.
You handle most tasks with some help.
Your partner rarely helps, so you do most of it.
It is entirely one-sided with no help.

6. How often do you spend quality time together?

Daily, you always make time for each other.
Several times a week.
Occasionally, when schedules allow.
Rarely, due to conflicting schedules.
Almost never, you live separate lives.

7. When disagreements occur, how quickly are they resolved?

Resolved on the same day.
Resolved within a couple of days.
Takes about a week to resolve.
Issues linger for several weeks.
Remains unresolved for a long time.

8. How would you rate the trust in your relationship?

Complete trust, no doubts.
Mostly trust with minor doubts.
Some trust but notable concerns exist.
Limited trust with frequent doubts.
Very little trust, constant suspicion.

9. How aligned are your core values?

Our values are almost identical.
Very similar.
Somewhat aligned.
Quite different.
Completely at odds.

10. How do you manage finances as a couple?

We manage finances collaboratively and transparently.
We share responsibilities with occasional disagreements.
One person mainly manages with some input.
Finances are a frequent source of conflict.
There is complete secrecy and mistrust about money.

11. How frequently do you express physical affection?

Constantly, very affectionate.
Regularly, with ample affection.
Occasionally, when in a good mood.
Rarely, only on special occasions.
Almost never, very little affection.

12. How satisfied are you with the emotional intimacy in your relationship?

Extremely satisfied, you share everything.
Very satisfied, deep emotional connection.
Moderately satisfied, room for improvement.
Slightly satisfied, emotional closeness is lacking.
Not satisfied, very little emotional sharing.

13. How aligned are your future plans?

Completely aligned, very similar visions.
Mostly aligned with minor differences.
Some alignment, but significant differences remain.
Rarely aligned, your visions differ greatly.
Not aligned at all, completely separate futures.

14. How well does your partner understand your needs?

They understand you perfectly.
They understand most of your needs.
They understand some needs but miss others.
They rarely understand what you need.
They do not understand your needs at all.

15. How do you resolve misunderstandings?

You communicate effectively and resolve them quickly.
You take time to explain and resolve them satisfactorily.
It takes effort, but you eventually understand each other.
Misunderstandings lead to prolonged arguments.
They are never resolved, causing lasting issues.

16. How do you support each other's personal growth?

Actively encourage and support each other's goals.
Support each other most of the time.
Offer support occasionally.
Minimal support, little encouragement.
No support for personal growth.

17. How comfortable are you discussing difficult topics?

Very comfortable; you tackle tough topics head-on.
Fairly comfortable, though challenging at times.
Somewhat comfortable, but with hesitation.
Uncomfortable; you avoid them as much as possible.
Very uncomfortable; you never discuss difficult topics.

18. How do you feel about your partner's family and social circle?

You love them and have a great relationship with them.
You like them and get along well.
You feel neutral, neither close nor distant.
You have some reservations about them.
You don't get along with them at all.

19. How well do you manage stress together?

You work together to overcome stress effectively.
You support each other during stressful times.
You cope individually with moderate collaboration.
Stress often causes conflicts between you.
You are unable to manage stress, leading to frequent breakdowns.

20. Overall, how satisfied are you with your relationship?

Extremely satisfied – you couldn’t be happier.
Very satisfied – you’re happy most of the time.
Moderately satisfied – it has its ups and downs.
Slightly satisfied – there are many issues.
Not satisfied at all – you’re very unhappy.

About the Couple Compatibility Questionnaire

Our free Couple Compatibility Questionnaire is designed to help you evaluate the strengths and areas for improvement in your relationship. By answering 20 scenario-based questions, you receive a personalized compatibility score along with actionable tips tailored to your relationship dynamics.

Why Use This Tool?

Understanding the dynamics of your relationship is key to building a strong foundation. Our questionnaire assesses factors such as trust, communication, shared values, conflict resolution, and more to give you a comprehensive view of your compatibility.

FAQs

Q1: How accurate is the compatibility score?
A: The score is based on your responses to 20 carefully designed questions. While it provides valuable insights, it is not a definitive measure of your relationship’s success.

Q2: Can this tool help improve my relationship?
A: Yes, along with the score, the tool offers personalized tips that may help you and your partner work on key areas such as communication and conflict resolution.

Q3: Is my data saved or shared?
A: No, all responses are processed in real time and are not stored, ensuring your privacy.

Disclaimer:

This tool is for informational purposes only and does not replace professional relationship counseling. For serious concerns, please consult a qualified relationship therapist.